I can't believe it's been a year. A whole year since my dad lost his fight with cancer. The pain has definitely subsided over that time, especially knowing that he wasn't suffering anymore. No more shitty chemo. No more involuntary convulsions. No more meds. No more being an invalid. And that's good because my dad hated being dependent on anyone.<a href="http://blog.reybango.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/mem-047.jpg"><img src="http://blog.reybango.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/mem-047-300x225.jpg" alt="" title="mem 047" width="300" height="225" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1182" /></a>

Tonight, I'll join my family in a service to remember my dad. And that's good because we all need some closure.

We miss you dad.

